Just Created Myself a Blog! So What's Up

My name is Marsh Uele. Author and content contributor of this blog. I am very Pleased to welcome you here with me on this journey of seeking to know life and share discoveries with one another. I hope you will find the content presented here useful and worthy of your time.

A little More about myself

Born in the US Territory of American Samoa, an Island in the south Pacific. Married to a beautiful women who is a Mother of my four wonderful children.

I have no specific interest in anything in particular, but passionate about anything I see or come in contact with in many way. I have so many questions to ask in just about anything I see, but no one seems to consider answering them. So, I started answering them myself. So, my life is very much a long list of questions piling up everyday, with a short list of answers slowly catching up He he... :) ... And there you go, my journey begins.

Sharing rather than teaching is how I wanted things to be.

Sharing our insights and experience on life process, our existence, creation, and us included as life itself, makes much sense. Allowing our-self some time to realize what we are, and what is being human means, becomes very clear. This is about individually seeking the truth for our-self. Sharing what is true for you, is entirely your choice.  

This is not about me claiming myself as the all knowing. 

Not at all. This is not about religions, or any belief systems. This has nothing to do with all the religion scriptures out there. Please forgive me for I have no interest of seeking truth from any religion and their scriptures. I'm not saying I believe or disbelieve any of it. Being right or wrong is not the issue.

What I know, I know... What I don't Know, I don't know.

I speak only what I Know. The truth is just this; if I can perceive what it is through my own experience and involvement to all life as life myself, then surely, the possibility of knowing is there.

Therefore, speaking of what is not yet in my experience, is not true for me. So, I don't know. That I can not speak off, in any way as the truth. That's OK, I'm fine with that. What's the problem? 

There is nothing wrong with that. Simply say I don't Know. Now for me, I will naturally want to know. The only question is, do I have the courage to take the Journey. 

The More You Give The More You'll Receive.

"The Law Of The Universe: The Art Of Giving and Receiving..."

What you give is what you’ll get, not in the exact manner, but way more in value...! Whatever that is, and what it means to you... You are so giving it, with strong feelings of it, your heart moves you in doing it, and why fighting it? This is it! The art of giving.... only if there’s receiving!

Giving at free will... Straight from the heart!

Give it when your heart moves you to do it, because your heart’s doing can never be wrong. When you feel it, just do it, it is that simple! It is not an act of your un-ease mind, that’s all messy with too much thinking, calculation’s, questions, and uncertainty. This is an act of goodness that flows freely from your heart’s free will. It has no origin or beginning, and has no stop or ending. It flows continuously like a river, or circulation of the wind, or what we call the circle of life.

When the act of giving is joyful, when it is unconditional and from the heart, then the energy behind the giving increases many times over. This doesn’t have to be in the form of material things. The gifts of caring, affection, appreciation, and love are some of the most precious gifts you can give, and they don’t cost you anything.

You may say, “How can I give to others when I don’t have enough myself?” You can bring a note that says something about your feelings for the person you’re visiting. You can bring a flower, a compliment, or a prayer.

There is nothing you lack, because your essential nature is one of pure potentiality and infinite possibilities. You are inherently affluent no matter how much or how little money you have, because the source of all wealth is the field of pure potentially that knows how to fill every need.

Wherever you go, and whomever you encounter, you will bring them a gift. The gift may be a compliment, a flower, or a prayer. Today, you will give something to everyone you come into contact with, and so you will begin the process of circulating joy, wealth, and affluence in your life and in the lives of others.

Receiving: Be gratefully receive what’s coming your way.

When receiving a gift from someone, take it with thankfulness and appreciation from the bottom of your heart. Let your heart opens up a thankful welcome, and blessedness respond in appreciation of what you have received. Everything that comes to you, isn’t something you earn, but a gift freely given by the universe, which means it comes from a deep awareness of what you need.

Think of all the things that have been freely given to you without your having to ask for them. Just experiencing gratitude allows you to participate in the law of Giving and Receiving. Nature supports your every need and desire, including your need for joy, love, laughter, harmony, and knowledge. Seek these things first—not only for yourself, but for others—and all else will spontaneously come to you.

Today you will gratefully receive all the gifts that life has to offer you. You will receive the gifts of nature: sunlight, the sound of birds singing, the sun, or the rain. You will also be open to receiving from others, whether it be in the form of a material gift, money, a compliment, or a prayer.

So, giving and receiving needs each others participation in the flow of life. There must be a receiving in order to give, and vice versa. Maintain this flow and so you will begin the process of circulating joy, wealth, and affluence in your life and in the lives of others.

Abundance has material expression, but what is really circulating is consciousness. Even the thought of giving, the thought of blessing, or a simple prayer has the power to affect others. Similarly, receiving gratefully, appreciations, thankfulness has the same expression as giving. We are bundles of thought in a thinking universe, and thought has the power to transform.

Giving and receiving are nothing other than the flow of life—the harmonious interaction of all elements and forces that structure the field of existence. The exchange of energy is the process that has its own timing, organization and beauty. Your life unfolds in the same way.

Is based on the fact that everything in the universe operates through dynamic exchange. Every relationship is one of give and take because giving and receiving are different aspects of the flow of energy in the universe. If we stop the flow of energy, we interfere with nature’s intelligence. We must give and receive in order to keep money, or anything we want, circulating in our lives.

Currency, our word for money, derives from a Latin word meaning “to run or flow.” Money is a symbol of the life energy we give and the life energy we receive as a result of the service we provide to others. Like a river, money must keep flowing, otherwise it begins to clog and stagnate. Circulation keeps it alive and vital. If we stop the circulation of life energy, if our intention is to hold on to our money and hoard it, we stop its circulation back into our lives.

You will make a commitment to keep wealth circulating in your life by giving and receiving life’s most precious gifts: the gifts of caring, affection, appreciation, and love. Each time you meet someone, you will silently wish them happiness, joy, and laughter.

Spend Money on Everything That Fulfills You

The humans of the earth have a habit of spending their hard-earned money on things that do not please them, but their society.

The wedding celebration is one of those things that requires a lot of money, but it ends up being a waste, at least partially if not entirely. The bigger the status of a family, the greater are their expenses on a wedding. For some people, a celebration turns out to be a nightmare. So much so, that they end up taking loans just to celebrate an occasion that could have been done in a simple, yet enjoyable manner.

The youth these days is more interested in spending more on their honeymoon and lifelong travel plans rather than one day of marriage celebration, which is just an example of extravagance.

Spending money on travel

Going to a new city is not just seeing new sights; it is the emotional fulfillment that matters.

Traveling to the serene hills and soul-quenching beaches can be the best thing in the world. You can put aside some money every month from your earnings to fulfill your travel plans.

When you talk to a monk in a Buddhist monastery, you will have much more clarity about his religion. When you hear your voice echoing from the depth of the mountains, it will reverberate in your heart.

When you go for scuba diving in the ocean, you will test the potential of your abilities.

When you let yourself fly from a height of 7,000 feet in a tandem Paraglide, you will feel the air touching your face in the purest form, and those few minutes will relieve your soul from the world.

Among many other things in the world that gratify your mind and heart, travel can liberate you the most.

Spending money on education
Educating yourself as well as others is a part of emotional fulfillment that people often seek.

When you have money, you love to spend it on things that amuse you. However, it gives another level of satisfaction when you make a few expenses for the sake of others.

Try teaching your children or those of others; it enlighten your mind a notch higher. Many travelers around the world become part-time teachers in whichever city they go. They seek satisfaction in teaching the underprivileged kids or simply impart a skill that they know, but other adults in the society do not.

Receiving and giving education is something that keeps millions of travelers going, be it in the form of academic knowledge, culinary skills, or martial arts.
A wedding is just one instance of wasteful expenditure; people can manage many other things in much less money than they expend. The money and resources that they save are worthy enough to be used in much better places.

Momentary happiness is one thing and seeking a lifetime of bliss is another. You can be there at the mountaintop in the Himalayas and still feel the discontent in your heart. On the other hand, you can cook a pizza for your family and friends to attain immense happiness that you always wanted.

You should always do the soul-searching to realize what makes you happy and satisfied. It is of no use doing things for other's sake, be it anyone in the world, if it does not soothe your mind.

In the end, it is you who would evaluate your life and judge its worth. If you can bring a smile on your face while thinking of all the years you have spent till now; your life was absolutely worth living.

Spending Money For The Wrong Reason

There are many people who just can`t control their spending habits. And this only becomes a problem when other areas in life begin to suffer. This suffering can be intrinsic, financial or just in general whether it`s with family, friends or work. There are often reasons why someone has the need to spend and it`s often when those issues are addressed, that the over-spending stops.

Spending money can become like an addiction. It can be so habit forming that it becomes who you are and what your routine looks like. You might be in the habit of going to the store and buying whatever you like and over buying on things, just because you can at the time. Often a shopper with a problem will buy on impulse and will buy in quantity or quality. That means that they may be able to buy four dresses without trying them on, or they may have no thoughts against buying an item not needed even when it costs too much money.

Feeling like you have an addiction to spending money means that after you make your purchases, you feel over-whelmed with guilt and grief. You might get home and not even know what possessed you to buy some of the things you did, but might feel too ashamed to take them back.

When you have family members and friends that are questioning your spending money, you might have some insight into what they see. Often you may not notice how other people view you because they do not say anything, but when they do voice an opinion, it may be time to listen to what they have to say.

Spending money on items that you may not need can take a heavy financial burden on you and your family. You might be neglecting on important items or bills in order to pay for impulsive items. This kind of stress can put a heavy toll on someone living alone, or in a family. Financial stress is one of the number one causes behind divorces.

There might be a breaking point, where your family breaks up, or your financial walls have come crumbling down around you where you address that you need help. There are ways to battle the addiction of over-spending and it just takes some quick soul searching. Many times buying items comforts us in some way. It makes us feel good to buy new items and spend money, there is a little piece of heaven attached to it. However, you have to ask yourself if you only buy things when you need comforting. This is an important issue to address. 

Do you run to the mall when you feel bad about something? Do you over spend on groceries when you know you can`t afford it?

Some strict self-discipline needs to take place for change to occur. You can talk with your doctor about seeing someone for counseling to deal with the emotional issues. You can also contact your bank and make an appointment to talk to someone. Your banking professional can give you a monthly budget and help you look at ways to pay off bills and save money.

Often changing the way you think, can alter your spending desires. Take a temporary second job and start collecting the money in a separate account. When you go shopping you will begin to think about the items you are buying and how much they cost and how much work you had to do to pay for those individual items. Start to buy the things you need in cash, leave the debit card at home and find other ways to comfort yourself when you need it.